Earlier this month, I wrote about “Turn and Connect,” the Biblical method which provides the way to overcome lust, fear, and other issues, which is written about in detail in The Road to Grace, for those who struggle with sex addiction, and The Wife’s Heart, Read More
Ladies, Discover the Blessing of Journaling For the hurting wife who is coping with her husband’s porn and adultery, it’s critical that she is able to consistently express her pain, anger, and confusion. The Wife’s Heart Journal provides you with a great way to open Read More
There are several ministries to persons who struggle with porn that advocate waiting until the husband has six months of abstinence from porn before telling his wife. I disagree with that approach, for these reasons. Lying and hiding are always woven into the character of Read More
The Next Wife’s Heart Retreat: June 28-30, 2024 A time of healing and restoration for wives who are recovering from their spouse’s porn or adultery. The Wife’s Heart Retreat is held in the mountains of Beulah, Colorado, in a pristine, secluded setting where you can Read More
“Wives, submit to your husbands…” Ephesians 5:22 stirs up controversy, doesn’t it? “Submit” is a verse that is dangerous when taken out of context; it can be used to attempt to bludgeon, bully, or manipulate the wife into accepting behavior which should never be tolerated, Read More
by Mike Genung 10 years ago, I was given a poster with the images of 3 players of the Los Angeles Lakers, all who played in different decades. Under their pictures are the records of losing seasons: 36-43, 40-42, and 34-48, with the words “They Read More
Years ago, my wife Michelle wrote a letter to me describing how my sexual sin had affected her. This letter is shown in my book The Wife’s Heart, Healing from Your Husband’s Porn and Adultery; we’ve received quite a bit of feedback that Michelle’s letter Read More
February of this year, I released The Wife’s Heart; Healing from Your Husband’s Porn and Adultery, and it immediately became the top seller for my books. 70% of the emails we receive are from hurting wives, yet there are fewer resources for wives than for Read More
The following is from Chapter 9 of Mike Genung’s book, The Wife’s Heart, Healing from Your Husband’s Porn and Adultery: You Are Jael Now Sisera fled away on foot to the tent of Jael the wife of Heber the Kenite, for there was peace between Read More
by Mike Genung One of the questions we hear often from wives is, “How do I rebuild trust after my husband has been lying to and hurting me with his sexual sin for years?” Following is an excerpt from Chapter 11 of my new book Read More
My new book for wives, The Wife’s Heart; Healing from Your Husband’s Porn Addiction and Adultery is now available. You can order the book from the store. I wrote this book to address the questions I hear from hurting wives often. Topics include: Understanding your husband. Read More
My next book, The Wife’s Heart; Healing from Your Husband’s Porn Addiction and Adultery, is in the final pre-production stages. The manuscript has been edited, and the interior is being created. We should have the cover done in 10 days. If everything goes right I’ll Read More
by Mike Genung Man gets hooked on porn in his teens. He gets married, but doesn’t tell his wife. After years of chasing porn for his next lust-hit, he lets his marriage go. Their relationship fades, along with their sex life. She is frustrated, angry, Read More
by Mike Genung Recently, a woman posted the following on our blog: “My husband is a pastor. I was shocked to find porn on his phone last March. When I told him I discovered his porn use, he exploded in anger and blamed me. I Read More
Michelle and I celebrated 27 years of marriage last week. It was a great day: the two of us away from home, dinner at Bubba Gump’s in downtown Denver, an evening at a nice hotel. God has done an amazing work in our relationship over Read More
by Mike Genung I’ve written a new workbook for couples who want to heal their relationship from the effects of porn and adultery. The Road to Grace for Couples; a Workbook for Healing from Porn and Adultery will walk both of you through the process Read More
by Mike Genung It hit the fan today. Your husband confessed that he’s addicted to pornography. You’re sick to your stomach, furious, and deeply hurt. Perhaps you assume his problem is about you: “I must not be enough for him; what am I doing wrong? Read More
by Mike Genung Man gets hooked on porn in his teens. After years of binging on it, he gets married, without telling his wife. He thinks marital sex will resolve his lust problem, but instead it makes it worse. Not long after their wedding day, Read More
by Robin Williams, facilitator of the Blazing Grace Wives Groups I’ve had a mentor/friend for the last several months who meets me at a local coffee shop. Looking back, I realized it was a divinely appointed God connection. I was struggling with depression, and for Read More
By Linda Those of us who are wives recovering from our husband’s sexual sin are in different places in our marriages and healing journeys. To those of you who are still married and are holding onto the hope of a miraculous healing in your marriage, Read More
by Robin Williams, Facilitator of the Blazing Grace Wives Support Group Blazing Grace offers a prayer and support group for wives who are hurting and wounded by their husband’s sexual addiction or adultery. The group is open not only to those who are married but Read More
by Sandy England How I forgave my husband after his affairs and adultery with porn. Sounds easy right? All you have to do is forgive and move on. For some it may be that easy. For me, it was not easy at all. My husband Read More