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Dahntay
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 Posted: Fri Mar 28th, 2008 01:31 am
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This question is for my friend. I'll call him Pablo. Pablo feels that he could stop but he says that since there's no chance any woman on the planet would be interested in him, apparantely they consider him to be boring?, that he has no other alternative. I  don't know if he's got the autism or somethin but he's def not very smooth. Pablo says hes fine with them not bein interested in him now but hes frustrainted by lack of improvement or hope it will change in the future. I tried mentioning the bible (don't mean to offend anyone) but he said the only thing guaranteed to everyone is for the next life?

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 Posted: Fri Mar 28th, 2008 01:39 am
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I tried mentioning the bible (don't mean to offend anyone) but he said the only thing guaranteed to everyone is for the next life?

"the only thing guaranteed to everyone is: for the next life?"

What does this mean? 

Thanks.

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 Posted: Fri Mar 28th, 2008 01:55 am
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I'm thinkin he's talkin about heaven, but someone that follows religion more closely than  I would probably be able to give a better description.

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 Posted: Fri Mar 28th, 2008 10:04 pm
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Hello.  Interesting to hear the mention of autism.  Autism is a very broad term that includes classic autism as well as asperger syndrome.  Has Pablo mentioned he thinks he's autistic?

With asperger, my difficulties with noise and other hypersensitivities (sight, taste, touch) would make it very difficult for me to marry.

It's very doubtful I will ever be married but that doesn't mean to say that masturbation should be a part of such a life.

Last edited on Sun Mar 30th, 2008 08:37 pm by guitarist63

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 Posted: Sun Mar 30th, 2008 04:14 am
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He mentioned that he thought he had it a few months back. I can't remember whether it was autism or asperger syndrome. I think it's more the autism because of his akwardness with people but he hasn't made mention of sensitivities. He's been saying that if he can't get married it makes it difficult for him to focus on other things in his life as he sees them as unimportant.

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 Posted: Sun Mar 30th, 2008 10:23 am
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Last edited on Wed Apr 2nd, 2008 10:57 pm by guitarist63

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 Posted: Tue Apr 1st, 2008 04:52 pm
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So..would he be better off doing this or going for the siucide?

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 Posted: Tue Apr 1st, 2008 07:51 pm
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Hi Dahntay,

None of the above.  He would do best to trust God, through Jesus Christ with his life, that there is a plan for him, and it does not include harming himself, but depending on the Lord's strength and guidance to confront temptation, loneliness, etc.

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