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dkleejr43
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 Posted: Tue Sep 5th, 2006 04:39 am
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 this week was rough fo rme , i had a lot of negative feeling this week. wanting to leave - not happy in marrage - not enough romance - anger- . There have been many fights this week . Its been bad - please pray:?

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 Posted: Thu Sep 7th, 2006 12:55 am
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Praying

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 Posted: Sun Sep 10th, 2006 04:46 am
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Hey there.  I know this post is late, but I can sure relate to you.  It's been a rough week too.  A rough couple years, and worse for my partner.  She is doing her best, but there are just things all over that remind her of it.  I will pray for you and ask you and all others here to pray for me and my spouse.  I love her so much, and I am so scared that she'll have to go, even though I've been sober for over 2 years.  I've devastated her.

By the way I am new here if you don't recognize me.  I have read before but not posted.

 



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 Posted: Mon Sep 11th, 2006 11:18 pm
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journeyofmine_, welcome!  I hope that you have found this forum of encouragement.  You are not alone, and neither is your wife.

 

Heavenly Father, I pray that You will work in this marriage in a miraculous way to bring healing and make it the beautiful image of our relationship with You that You intend it to be.  I give thanks for the two years of sobriety, and ask for continued strength.  In Jesus name, amen.

 

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 Posted: Wed Sep 13th, 2006 05:47 am
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Thank you for the prayer and well wishes Truthseeker.  My partner is having such an awful time.  She nearly left me tonight and right now she is hiding in her washroom in the dark.  She has so much hatred, fear, pain and other emotions that I don't know what to do, and admittedly there are things that I don't do as much that I could, and I just don't have the answers she's looking for.  I love her so much but I'm so so fearful that no matter how faithful or changed I am that she won't be able to live with the past.  It seems to kill her more everyday and no matter how much I pray it hasn't been His will to let her be ok.  She sure tries hard though.  She has hung in there and is a trooper.  I know she didn't have to stay.

anyway, thanks for the prayer.  I've been praying all day at work and night.  I was feeling pretty ill today at work but then it got better.  Now I'm just very unhappy/worried and stressed because she's so upset.  And not without reason.  I wish I could tell her it was all a mistake. :(



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 Posted: Wed Sep 13th, 2006 06:55 pm
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Has she gotten counsel and/or support for herself in all this time?  Has she had anyone to share with, or has she been trying to bear this alone.  (Other than you.)  Has something happened recently that has brought her emotions bubbling to the surface?  You have probably seen Celebrate Recovery mentioned on this site.  It is not just for addiction recovery, but for working through hurts as well.

 

Still praying.

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