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Posted: Fri Dec 16th, 2005 05:53 pm |
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| Please pray! Marriage is over Dh got violent and hurt me. Going to court next week please pray! I've been informed it will get ugly! Children involved. I am trying to protect my children. Dont think he would hurt them but never thought he would do, what he has done already! Never thought he would hurt me the way he did. I have realised I do not know him. He has lived a seperate life for so long. I am scared! They said his lawyer would go after everything in my past and drag it out! I have fought so hard for this marriage and failed! So many emotions going through me. Everyone telling me to be strong
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Posted: Fri Dec 16th, 2005 08:03 pm |
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Oh, mae, I'm so very sorry. If you would like more personal support than these forums provide, please send me a personal message with your e-mail and I will contact you. I am crying with you....literally. Are you and the kids in a safe place now? Please be sure to file whatever you need to with the authorities or you may not be able to use this evidence to protect your children in the future..... I don't know about you being strong.....how can you just "buck up" and be strong when your life is falling apart and you've been so betrayed. It's okay to fall apart some....to weep, etc.....don't stuff your feelings, but I will pray He will be your strength....your pillar in this time of storm......that He will carry you and that you'll know Him to be a husband to you, even, during this time. Also, that He will give you the clarity of mind and action you'll need to take care of yourself and of your children right now legally, emotionally, etc........and that you'll all be protected physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually in every way. Wish I could hug and pray with you in person....really I do.
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Posted: Fri Dec 16th, 2005 08:56 pm |
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Mae,
Sounds like a real tough situation. If you feel that you could be threatened or harmed further seek advice quickly on getting into a safe environment...court orders of protection don't do much and locks can be kicked in.
Perhaps your husband was never told that a guy should not hit a gal. Maybe he just can't control his anger. He should be ashamed of himself. Wish I was in a position to kick his butt. ..teach him a lesson in Christian love of course!
Lord, protect Mae and the kids. Touch her in a strong way. Soften her husbands heart and may he realize that you are there and that you can forgive him. Do a work in their hearts and perhaps restore their marriage.
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Posted: Tue Dec 20th, 2005 04:14 pm |
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mae,
Just wondering how you are. Even if you can't respond, please know you've been thought of and prayed for often!
with care,
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Posted: Tue Dec 20th, 2005 04:23 pm |
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Don't know how I missed the original post.
Mae I am so sorry. I will pray now.
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Posted: Wed Dec 21st, 2005 02:49 pm |
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Hi I am getting stronger everyday! I go to court tomorrow. Husband tried to strangle me! Getting over shock- concerned about court room dont want things to get ugly just cant handle much more hurt. My emotions are so damaged! God is my portion and strong tower. One good thing, God is using me to minister to other women dailey. It helps to know God can bring good out of the most horrendous circumstances!. Please pray for my children, utmost in my mind is their protection and healing! I do not know who my husband is ! It is like livng with a stranger. I am afraid of him! I am trying to get supervised visitations. My six year old son misses his dad! It is so heartbreaking. My sons do not have a Godly role model! My girls do not trust men! I do not either! But my confession is this "My God is able to do above and beyond everything I can ask or think and imagine!" His anointing breaks every yoke of bondage. I am starting a new life for me and children! I hurt for all but I am not with out hope! All are in my prayers!
Love in Christ
Mae
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Posted: Wed Dec 21st, 2005 04:04 pm |
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Mae,
I can tell your faith and transparency.....and the power of the Spirit in you would touch many! Thank you for sharing....and for standing on His promises as you do! You do inspire me! Again, I am so, so sorry all of this has happened to you and to your children. Yes, I have and will continue to pray!
You say you're afraid of your husband. Is he in the custody of the police right now? Has he made any other threats verbally?
It is hard.......your kids will deal with such conflicting emotions......even over the years, as they mature and realize what you've had to deal with.......the sin of one person impacting so many......I'm praying with you for healing and that God will turn this around in the hearts and lives of your children and use it all to draw them close to Him in a powerful way!
With love and care and hugs in Jesus,
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