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 Posted: Tue Apr 17th, 2007 02:07 am
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Hello. I have found this site online after looking on the Google a little bit, and I'm glad that I have found it. I personally have not had sex before, and I have never even kissed a woman, but I know a co-worker who I've been having trouble understanding perfectly (see my Prayer Requests topic).

I also worry sometimes when I get an erection, because I don't know if it's a bad thing to get one even though I don't masturbate or anything bad like that. But is it bad to get an erection from seeing an attractive woman, or is it okay? I'm not sure if I should just leave it or not...

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 Posted: Tue Apr 17th, 2007 02:24 am
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Hi DiegoDraw,

You are not responsible for what crosses your path, unless you have deliberately sought a location for the purposes of what you will see.  It is not what happens to cross before your eyes, but whether or not you let your eyes linger and/or your mind imagine what it should not.  Likewise, a physical response for guys is not completely controllable, so could not be wrong for occurring unbidden.  If ignored, it is myunderstanding that it will go away without incident.  At such point as you might marry, your purity is a treasure that your wife will cherish.

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