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LewG
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 Posted: Fri Apr 13th, 2007 02:12 pm
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Hi everyone,

 

My name is Lew Gervais and this is my first post on this forum.

I am the recovery pastor in my church http://www.ziononline.com and I also work for a ministry called Hope Ministries  http://www.hopeministriesflorida.org where I co-lead a Christ centered support group for men who struggle with sexual issues.

I grew up in rochester New Hampshire and my childhood was plagued with doubt and insecurities. I never actually got into porn but was addicted to fantacy and masturbation. By the time I was in junior high I had full blown fantacies living in my head. I couldn't get rid of them and as a result I would run home to relieve myself at my earliest opportunity. It was a fearful thing to not have control of your own thought life but that is exactly where I was. I started using drugs to cope with my sexual addiction. the drugs kept me numb and actually helped me control the sexual torment I lived with.

By the time I graduated from high school I was a full blown drug addict. I joined the Air Force and my drug use graduated to shooting heroin. I was busted by the Air Force and sent through their drug treatment program. I continued to use drugs and fantacies to feed my addictions. In December of 1972 I commited my life to Christ and put down the drugs almost overnight. My sex addiction took over 6 months to come under God's control.

Sense then I got out of the military and graduated from college as a school teacher. 25 years ago I got married and had two children who are both in their twenties now. In 1985 I left the classroom and became a missionary moving to nassau Bahamas to work with crack addicts. I now live in Palm bay Florida and I continue my ministry to the addicted. God continues to give me victory over lust and masturbation. I am always looking for healthy places the men in my group can go for added help. I am glad I found this web site and this forum. Pardon me for bring so long winded.



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 Posted: Fri Apr 13th, 2007 02:28 pm
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Lew, it's great to "see" you in here. It's Steve in Colorado, your buddy from His Mansion. :)

Folks, whatever Lew says, you need to listen to him. The man has a lot of wisdom and he's a great guy!

-Steve

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 Posted: Fri Apr 13th, 2007 04:38 pm
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We're all ears:)

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 Posted: Fri Apr 13th, 2007 07:35 pm
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Steve wrote: Lew, it's great to "see" you in here. It's Steve in Colorado, your buddy from His Mansion. :)

Folks, whatever Lew says, you need to listen to him. The man has a lot of wisdom and he's a great guy!

-Steve

thanks Steve for the words of encouragement. I will send you a check in a few weeks for the advertising... I am glad to see that you are also in this forum. I guess this ministry is in your neck of the woods. See ya later.



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 Posted: Fri Apr 13th, 2007 08:07 pm
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Welcome Lew,

Nothing "longwinded about your testimonial introduction." You are an inspiration and I pray that the Lord will continue to allow your ministry to shine.

Cheers,

Marc


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