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Posted: Wed Feb 28th, 2007 07:11 pm |
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You need to realize the way you viewed sex in pornography is not the same as sex with your wife. You developed a fantasy in your mind and spent years tailoring it to your own needs for a specific end result. Which was probably for release, gratification, escape, like a narcotic.
Sex with your wife is not the same thing. With her it's creation, "making love". Two souls uniting which is a complete different act that has nothing to do with boob size and hair color.
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Posted: Tue Mar 27th, 2007 01:14 am |
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| Hello I am going through something similar to what you are now. After freeing myself of porn adiction, healing, and having a successful marriage I slowly slipped back into it again. It was very gradual and to this day I really don't know why I did it but it was all my fault. It wasn't that I had poor counseling and etc. I just chose to do it. It was my choice. Now I am trying to back pedal and get to where I was before all this was allowed again. God gave us free will and with that will we can choose what we want to do. Kind of like the dog returning to its own vomit. What I am doing is learning what I had learned before without diclosing the whole thing to my wife. I told her before that I has struggled with this in the past. I can see now how far I slipped as its not as easy as i thought it would be and God has definitely chastised me in His own way and I am paying for it. Sometimes we just are not satisfied with what He gives us and we want more. Its so complex.
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