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Inthisskin22x
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Posted: Sat Jun 3rd, 2006 04:14 am |
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I dunt know, but Lately i've been feeling like every guy looks at porn and masturbates. My dad was sex addicted, he hurt my mom. My boyfriend is sex addicted, broke my heart. I just feel so disappointed, and hurt  Does every guy masturbate or look at porn in their life? Im not ugly, i'm very attractive. Im a wonderful christian woman who loves learning more about Jesus, and God.
But When this happens to us woman, we don't know what to feel
Thank you all for your advice, and my prayers are with you all!
God Bless!!!
My boyfriend tells me he's not addicted, but im afraid cause his father did it, his brother did it, his friends do it, so why wouldn't he? He say's hes a christian, but calling me names like Sl*T, Ugly, and names that aren't even close to me.
Then after he say's he's sorry, but he does it again the next day. If i ask him if he has a problem with porn and sex, he say's hes not like that, and that its disgusting and gross. He always thought it was, I start crying sometimes.
I have no idea what to say to him. I Love him, but I love God more, and I'll do what God want's me to do.
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Steve
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Posted: Sat Jun 3rd, 2006 06:06 am |
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I can assure you not all men struggle with porn and masturbation, although lust is definitely a common temptation for most guys.
In view of all you described about what you've encountered in your life, what do you think would be wise for you to "take on" in so far as your own personal growth?
-Steve
Last edited on Sat Jun 3rd, 2006 06:06 am by Steve
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RTK
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Posted: Tue Jun 6th, 2006 02:43 am |
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I've just got to respond to this...I have been dealing with stuff with my daughter dating - see Teen guys If this guy is "putting his best foot forward" to court you to the altar.... and you don't like the way you are currently being treated - what will life be like when he has you as his wife - and his guard is down and his "best foot forward is no longer important...what then? If you're serious about this guy, I'd suggest getting some counseling.
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Posted: Tue Jun 6th, 2006 05:32 am |
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I would think that porn would be almost insignificant to the verbal/emotional abuse you are already enduring. I agree wholeheartedly with RTK. 1 Cor. 13:4-7 is, of course, an ideal to which none of us can attain perfectly, but it sounds like he's nowhere close. Love and abuse do not belong in the same sentence. God loves you as He made you. Please do not let anyone put down His work. I urge you not to settle for less than God's best plan for your life.
May God give you wisdom.
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