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Posted: Fri Aug 15th, 2008 12:10 pm |
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Some days ago I talked with a young woman. She was 20 and my body reacted. I was just talking with she and her mother at my work. It happened a lot down there. I wondered if I would go for ejaculation..?
And I wonder: Is this okay or not?I wonder about that? What is good, right and true? I mean, I can fear that I have some homosexulity in me and when I see this reaction I can be kindo proud that I react normal, but I wonder if this is okay or not..? Can it be avoided? Should it be avoided?
I can be proud that this happened, but if it was a kid or a man or a sister, then it might not be so cool. Wonder what is okay or not...
It happens that I get nocturnal emissions nowadays. I wonder if it is just normal reactions in the body that I can be happy about.
Recently I had a full body massage. I only weared underwear. The massage guy was a man and I ejaculated while on my stomach. Is this only a physical bodily reaction?
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Posted: Fri Aug 15th, 2008 12:33 pm |
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Another thing: Wonder what is normal bodily reaction and what is wrong?
I.e. when bathing and playing with kids penis ususually grow, but I don't consider myself as pedophilia or the same thing can happen if I am in normal clothes and small touch me or play with me.
What is normal? What is only bodily reactions and what should be done something with, what should be treated and dealt with?
The same when the body reacts when being in normal contact with others? What is okay and what is not. I feel that it comes more when not masturbating.
I can be afraid of being pedophile.
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Posted: Fri Aug 15th, 2008 12:53 pm |
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I wonder what is a decent way to treat other people. No flirting? All women like sisters? Is that possible? How to do that? What if the body reacts? It might not be so cool when it "shouldn't" react, if it is with family-members, with kids, with the same sex...
Donno how to deal with the reactions in body or in mind. Is it cool when the body reacts when it shall, i.e. young attractive women or is it wrong? What to do with that and what to do if the body reacts on the wrong places?
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Posted: Fri Aug 15th, 2008 03:16 pm |
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Man wrote:
I.e. when bathing and playing with kids penis ususually grow, but I don't consider myself as pedophilia or the same thing can happen if I am in normal clothes and small touch me or play with me.
This happens to me (not when bathing) when I'm playing with the kids but I brush it off. I just happens to me too. I don't know why my body reacts the way it does. In reflecting, I think it is about maturity. Me personally, I have been living my life in what I thought a man should be. Rather than living more like Christ Jesus. Since praying, reading devotionals, getting with more mature christians and truly working harder in building my relationship with the Heavenly Father, many of my physical reactions have disappeared, GONE. I still have a LONG way to go but I know the Lord has a bigger plan for me and I hope to fulfill it when I learn what it is. God Bless You!
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Posted: Fri Aug 15th, 2008 03:55 pm |
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Hello, Man.
Erections come and go and aren't a major concern. If one is shy and has limited dealings with others, an erection might signal nothing more than that one is coming out of one's shell and feeling self-conscious about it. If one continues to expose oneself emotionally in meaningful relationships the erections will probably fade away in time. Might it help to focus more on what the other person is feeling in each situation and less on one's private experience?
If you're not practicing masturbation (or if you've slowed the frequency way down) it's natural to have an occasional nocturnal emission. There's nothing you need to do, or even can do, to stop this phenomenon. It's part of God's plan to exercise the sexual apparatus once in a while so that it will be in good working order should marriage come about in due course, and it keeps the tubes cleaned out and healthy.
If you're so sensitive that a back massage stimulates an ejaculation, may it not be wise to relax by other means?
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