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Posted: Mon Oct 29th, 2007 06:51 pm |
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Thanks guys. For me it seems to be the masculinity that maybe is not very good. Feel that I maybe lack a little bit of that. Maybe rejected it a little bit by my father, not seen, accepted and so on and maybe for that reason, rejected masculinity?
I think my parents have done as good as they could, but maybe it is not allways perfect all the same.. My father is maybe quite masculine in the way that he is quite good at getting things done, and maybe I have rejected this site because I have felt a little bit: Not seen, not respected, not accepted...
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Posted: Fri Nov 2nd, 2007 03:45 pm |
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Masculinity consists in taking the initiative to give the gift of yourself to a woman, and in being her point of orientation in the resulting relationship. It lies deeper than simply getting things done, which is only a personality characteristic that either men or women may have.
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Posted: Mon Dec 24th, 2007 03:31 am |
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Hi guys, I am not so sure if I struggle with SSA, but I hope it is okay that I post here? I don't allways feel very masculine and I can be afraid of looking into my heart: Do I struggle with SSA? ahh.. What is the truth?
I can be afraid of what lives in me: Might be dangerous to talk open with all friends about this. Can be very tempting to go nudies to get away/escape and maybe also get a confirmation that I am "normal". So nude women can kindo confirm me.. so it mgiht be tempting..
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Posted: Fri Aug 15th, 2008 12:23 pm |
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For me it might be ocd, that I fear very much to be homosexual..
Recently I was to a massagist and I was in underwear and I was laying on my stomach and I got an ejaculation. I might feared that and maybe also was tense in body because I didn't masturbate upfront.
Some days earlier I had a nocturnal emission. Maybe that was because of tensions in body...
And I was afraid that it should happen again when I was laying on my back and he might see it that it got wet and that it got bigger in the underwear.
But in one way I would hope that would happen as well. It is kindo exposing the fear, doing what I fear, then it might be so dangerous..?
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Posted: Fri Aug 15th, 2008 04:09 pm |
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Thanks for your honesty, Man.
Lust is very smart. It will attach to you in any way it can. While I am not in any way attracted sexually to men, I know that if I chose to expose myself to stimulus like same-sex porn, I would eventually become excited by it and have a new problem to contend with.
I would strongly advise you to not return for a massage. You'll be tempted and even somewhat hopeful that things would repeat themselves. This is a bad road to go down.
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Posted: Wed Aug 20th, 2008 02:40 pm |
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Thanks Bil. It might be that this is quite normal when not masturbating and the body get very tense? so every touch will count and the body might react on "everything"?
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Posted: Wed Aug 20th, 2008 08:03 pm |
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I feel it is like I have done something wrong in a homosexual way. I am not so sure about that... I feel it is like an accusation. Is it that Bil?
I think I wasn't very happy with that response. Is it something wrong. If I'd masturbated a lot upfront, it might not happen.
It might be that the body was very tense and that it happened because of that..? Am I pedophile if I get sexual reactions while playing with kids?
Am I non-sexual if I get nocturnal emissions in the night and there is no sexual dreams?
If a male doctor has to examine your penis and you react, does that mean that you are homosexual? Isn't there some natural things that happens in the body, natural responses..
I remember getting orgasms while climbing ropes as kids. Does that mean that I am ropophil?
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