http://www.shelleylubben.com my 2 cents
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BrokenDiva
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 Posted: Sun Apr 1st, 2007 09:09 pm
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This site may be ok for men but if she wants /expects men to get anything really true to her message she is in LA LA land

The beginning all in pink and lipstick and it just gets worse from there. I was incredibly dissappointed going to her website. It is like an anti porn actress message draped in pink fluffy crap. her pictures , her look herself , her grafics are all NOT what one would expect from someone trying to help.....or focus on reform

Am I the only one who thinks an "all about shelly" link complete with pictures is an appropriate way to say  "guys no lusting porn is bad "  ??

Just my 2 cents     for what it's worth  

 

 

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 Posted: Sat Apr 28th, 2007 05:08 am
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Totally agree with you brokendiva.

In fact, I am beginning to get tired of people and men making excuses for their inability to control sexual urges and hurt the people they are supposed to love over and over again.

Men who use porn and visit prostitutes like my partner who i recently left disgust me. I was pregnant with his child when i found all of this out- still am. This baby growing inside me made me realise that I do not want his filthy lifestyle or excuses around my child. I said to him the other day "if this child is a girl, how would you feel if disgusting men like yourself used her for sexual gratification?". "It would make me feel sick" he said. "Well, that person is you" I said.

If my unborn child is a girl, I pray to God that she does not get caught up with a man who cheats, betrays, lies and uses women purely for sexual gratification and, if my child is a boy, I pray to God that he does not grow up to be like his father.

I have had it with the whole sex addiction crap. It's time that men who participate in that filth either grow up or stay out of relationships where they hurt and destroy so many lives. I am sick of it and no longer make excuses.

My advice to women who are living with a man who is involved in this sort of lifestyle is to GET OUT before it destroys you. 


Last edited on Sat Apr 28th, 2007 05:44 am by goldnugget


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