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  Posted: Sun Feb 18th, 2007 08:35 am
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I have been hurting for a long time because of my husband's pornography issues.  I have somehow managed to stumble upon a book that kinda helps me work on me.

I did not handle the pornography properly with my husband's heart.  My childhood was very turbulant as far as my parent's marriage was concerned... they did not have good conflict resolution skills.

If any you would would like to grow and learn how to handle conflict in a more emotionally healthy and positive way, this book may help.  It might just open the door to some wonderful discussions with your husbands... and it might just help get you relational tools that could help you forgive your husband.

Here's the book:

Healing the hurts in your marriage, Gary Rosberg

http://www.amazon.com/Healing-Hurt-Your-Marriage-Rosberg/dp/1589971043/sr=8-1/qid=1171783949/ref=sr_1_1/102-7443671-9012109?ie=UTF8&s=books

Remember you cannot change your spouse, only God can.  But you can ensure that you are preparing a nurturing/ emotionally healthy soil for your husband to learn and grow.  It takes a lot of heart work to get to the point where forgiveness is present, but when you get to that point, life is not as bleak...

I am not sure if my marriage will survive, but I know that I am a much healthier person because of this book and much wiser.

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