Trying to Cope
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indigo05
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  Posted: Mon Dec 4th, 2006 01:34 am
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My husband had a sex addiction and before I met him he was in some open relationships with other women. He even belonged and participated in swinger clubs. Well last year around this time I discovered he joined a site on the internet for swingers to meet and get together discreetly. In the ad he placed he put looking for hot and erotic times. I found out all this by adding some spyware on my computer. He swears nothing ever came of it and he did it because he thought we were on our way to a divorce. Long story short I can't seem to get over this and it is negatively affecting our sex life. I never feel like I am good enough in the bed now and I never had problems like this in the past. My husband completely turns me off now and I don't know how much longer our marriage will last. Help anyone who has been through this please advise. Thank you.
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  Posted: Mon Dec 4th, 2006 02:16 pm
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Is he seeking recovery now?
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  Posted: Mon Dec 4th, 2006 04:55 pm
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He is seeking recovery and he doesn't view the pornography anymore but I have serious trust issues with him. He is in a job where his hours vary and he supervises workers (mostly women). I am at the point where I can't enjoy our sex life anymore and I can't trust him.
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  Posted: Thu Dec 7th, 2006 05:35 pm
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Heavenly Father, I lift up my sister Indigo to you, and pray that you will show her if there is anything remaining that should hinder her trust.  If not, Lord, I pray that you willl restore her trust and bring healing in her marriage.  In Jesus name, amen.

 

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  Posted: Sat Dec 9th, 2006 04:10 pm
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Truthseeker,

 

          Thank you so much for the prayer of support and please keep me in your prayers and I will keep you in mine.

 

 

                                                                                  Indigo

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