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Posted: Wed Feb 15th, 2006 01:42 am |
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I don't know where to begin. Me and my husband have been together for 8 years, and in the last 6 years he has cheated on me with women off the internet. So I believe that is cheating, especially when he tells them he can't tell me, and they know more about him than i do. But this last time I told him I love him so much, that I'm not going to ask him to stop anymore, whatever makes him happy. But I told him I don't know how long I can live sharing my husband, and I'm not making promises that i'll stick around. But I love him so much....how do you learn to be ok with it, deal with it and have a happy marriage.
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Posted: Fri Feb 17th, 2006 07:23 pm |
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>But this last time I told him I love him so much, that I'm not going to ask him to stop anymore, whatever makes him happy.
I'm assuming you wouldn't have married him if he had 2 or 3 girlfriends on the side, and you shouldn't tolerate this now. This means you should draw a line in the sand and force him to choose which one he wants - porn or you. In allowing him to continue, you're allowing him to treat you like a prostitute, instead of the precious gift from the Lord to him that you are.
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