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Posted: Fri Mar 16th, 2007 05:03 am |
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 I hate to sound synical, but WTF... every MAN says the same thing? Whoa is HIM! My GOD it is OK to lie and be deceitful, but they always have an excuse for doing so. I can't help myself... well, if you did not have hands, how much porn could you EXACTLY do, masturbating without hands...FUN ... Appologizing for doing stupid things YOU can control is too laughable..HAHAHAHAHA
Men who have fantasy sex with fantasy girlfriends, also have fantasy lives, fantasy food, and fantasy memories.... In other words they ARE teh dorks that did not get any attention while in school... no you and I are married to them!!
Father forgive us, for we are STUPID... Pigs belong on the farm, not in the house!
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Posted: Fri Mar 16th, 2007 07:46 am |
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Hi superificinnic,
Cynical, maybe but you also sound hurt. If you're like most of the other wives/women in this forum you have good reason to be. Please try to understand though, while it might appear to you that it's just a matter of choice, the reality is that it's far more than choice.
This site has an amazing amount of quality information that is enabling us nerds, dorks, wankers call us whatever you like, to discern where things went wrong and receive God's healing.
I was writing my story last night and realized that even at five years old I had an inordinant desire for intimacy which I attempted to satisfy with other children (while unsupervised of course). In questioning that inordinant desire I followed some links to a PTSD site [Post Traumatic Stress Dissorder].
I couldn't remember any trauma other than the beatings I received for my disgraceful behaviour and then I looked at my arm. Maybe God was guiding me, I don't know, but my arm is covered with scars. You see, as a two year old toddler I was accidently scalded with almost boiling water. My mother came to my aid rapidly and held the woolen pullover away from my chest so it could cool down and then while comforting me she pulled it over my head and threw it down on the floor not realizing that while waiting for it to cool the wool had intermeshed with the melted skin on my arm so that when it was removed, sheets of skin were literaly ripped from my arm.
Strangely, I have absolutely no recollection of that incident. I have only information from my parents and the scars to prove it. The pain would have been absolutely indescribable. I now suspect that the PTSD fallout from that incident may have initiated a sequence of events throughout my childhood that resulted in a life long sex addiction. Choices may have played a part but so did the complexities of life.
Anyway, all that to say that it's far from just a choice; it's very complex. My prayer for you is that God might give you an unusual measure of grace to understand this affliction and if your loved one is a sufferer then may he find Gods healing from it.
Last edited on Mon Mar 19th, 2007 01:56 am by P2J
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