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  Posted: Tue Jun 13th, 2006 04:17 am
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I am the partner of a sex addict  ( who is sober now for 2 yrs ) and after my discovery of him I decided to check out some porn to see what he saw in it. I have to say what i saw made my skin crawl. I of course could see the arousal factor as men especialy are very visual, but because i am a woman I think I could see something else...a dead ness in the eyes of the women there, both in pictures and in clips of movies. I get that they are trying to look sexy sultry and all that ...but the next time you act out ( and I hope for all of you it's never but lets be realistic)  you look past the lust and take a good look into some of those eyes.

I know it's possible this post will not be allowed and I understand that. I hope know one thinks I am judging them because  am not, but I will not pretend to understand the obbsession or desire to view ppl in this manner. I have a partner in recovery but the truth is I feel like Chicken Little always wondering when the sky will fall again 

Broken Diva

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